HR Playbook: The Counter Offer Conundrum

There’s an interesting, almost magical growth in a person’s value to the organization, as soon as they have another job offer. I’ve seen managers, who have very recently rated an employee as mediocre or poor, hurriedly change that rating to ‘irreplaceable’ as soon as the employee has an offer.

Now, did the employee’s performance magically swing upward that morning, or did the manager find herself at risk of being short-staffed?

If this is how an organization rates the value of people, are the most valuable employees the dissatisfied ones who are most actively seeking other opportunities?

What to Do?
Managers like the above will commonly come to HR, pleading for their very existence, and insist that we counter offer. And, of course, the counter is conveniently positioned right at, or slightly above what the organization has presented.

As a general rule I have taught my HR teams and organizations that “we do not do counter-offers.” Of course, there are exceptions, but the safest starting point is at ‘no.’

What is the risk of the counter-offer? The risks actually impact both the organization and to the employee.

Organizational Impact
Imagine working for a company where employees knew the best way to get a raise was to get an offer from another company. What behaviors would this promote?

Unfortunately, most of the behaviors this behavior rewards could be categorized as disloyalty to their current company. Employees are motivated (alas, even incented) to look elsewhere for work. An active job search most certainly impacts productivity, and prevents the employee from embracing a long-term perspective with his company.

The better strategy is to take care of your top performers. Be proactive about those that would represent ‘regrettable losses’ and recognize that some degree of attrition is natural (and even healthy) for the organization.

Employee Impact
An employee presented with a counter-offer from a current employer should probably decline. This may not seem to make much sense, given that the counter was likely at, or above the offer at the new organization, and staying-put would be a no-impact transition.

First, consider the scope of your manager’s influence. If you were underpaid, you have already likely asked your boss for a raise. If you are bored in your role, you have probably already raised this issue, too. The areas within your manager’s influence should have been able to already address are still the limit of his ability in a counter-offer situation. Shouldn’t these issues have already been handled?

We’re all adults, too. The employee presenting the offer has already taken the offer letter home to discuss with a spouse, reflected on it, made a list of pros and cons and ultimately made a tough, mature decision to embrace this change. Throwing additional dollars at the situation just added complexity to a decision that has already been a tough mental process for the employee.

Of course, there are always exceptions. I have encountered employees who haven’t considered all of the facts. As I have explored offers with a few, I can sometimes point-out that there are a few, unanswered questions that would be important for them to learn about their new employer. Some haven’t considered some of the supplemental benefits or compensation when comparing their new offer to their current situation. However, most have done a very thoughtful and thorough job in making their decision.

Also consider these key points:
  • By presenting a resignation notice, you've just strained the relationship with your current employer. How likely are you to be considered for a promotion if they question your loyalty or long-term commitment? Who might be selected first if there is a future layoff?
  • You would burn the bridge with your new employer. There would be no chance for future opportunities there.
  • If you were worth more, why didn't your employer recognize this previously. Did it take someone else taking an interest in you for your company to finally recognize your value?
  • Often, a counter offer becomes your next raise, so it's important to understand how this might impact your future salary increases (I wouldn't expect big ones for a while).
  • Statistics show that 70 - 80% of those who accept counter offers quit within six months, or are terminated within one year.
  • Perhaps most importantly, nothing really changed. Sure, you may have received more pay, but the factors that prompted further discussions with the new employer haven't changed 

If you’ve got one foot out the door, ‘the trend is your friend.’ When the counter offer comes, the default answer might need to be ‘no thank you’ given the list above.

Exceptions
Now, I’ve approved quite a few counter offers in my career. My team and my peers know that the starting point with me is “we don’t do counter offers” out of respect for the company’s culture and also for the employees.

When I have made exceptions, it is limited to select circumstances, such as:
  • An individual with unique talents, that would be tough to replace, and would unreasonably impact the team's productivity, if absent.
  • A key skill at a time of organizational change.
  • A key skill in a tight labor market.

Despite a manager’s emotional reaction to call an employee irreplaceable and march to HR with a request for a counter offer, the fact of the matter is, that we’re all replaceable.

At an early point in my career, my father once told me to put my hand in a bucket of water, then pull it out to see how irreplaceable I was. The image of the water more than immediately filling the void left by my hand has always stuck with me.

Summary
Although there are instances where a counter offer is necessary, starting at a standard of ‘it’s not our practice’ is the safest place for an organization and its employees.

No company wants a culture where salary practices and dictated by the offers employees receive. I would anticipate that most employees do not want to be labeled as disloyal and to face the potential long-term cost associated with accepting the counter.

Change is good! When the right offer comes, let’s all shake hands and wish each other the best. 

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